Am I dating a charming Psychopath ? Really scared now.

luvlady21

move on it doesn't seem like a healthy relationship

lara

boy u must really be hard up to date a psycho and when something goes wrong you wonder why. Get real

denise

he's a total freak, you already forgave him too many times, get away from him, you don't need him. That totally sucks that your dad did that to you, maybe people think they can use you, you're probably too nice, toughen up.

jHeart

HE is not the one who is "just a hurt scared (person) who is was hurt and scared of love"<< that description describes you!His remark that "oh you are so sweet and caring" is how he picks his "victims"...You Dad too. You are acting like a person that thinks enough sweetness and caring can fix mean people.WELL WAKE UP! From all you've told me this guy is a USER ABUSER, and he's got your number. He uses and abuses you, hurts you, and then trys to make it up to you, because he knows you're too sweet to have the guts to walk away!!!!!If you DON'T walk away from this, you are a FOOL.He will cheat on you, he will lie to you, he will hurt you, and then soothe you, over and over and over again.He's already started with you, and entrapped you like a fly squirming in a tangle web of lies and deceit, which is known in mental health circles as"The Cycle of Abuse"You will clearly see yourself at this link:http://www.heart-2-heart.ca/men/page5.htmlAnd the ONLY answer is, for YOU to learn that YOU are responsible for the way people treat you, because when a person uses you, it is time to toss that bad apple out of your barrel. Only surround yourself with people who PROVE they can be trusted to act normally, and not hurt you.If you do not toss out the bad apples, your whole life will rot and stink with bruises and pain.If you continue with this man, the following will be YOUR life:http://www.geocities.com/Wellesley/3059/wheel.html^j^

babs0850

I think you know the answer to your question sweetie. This dude is a player, a real jerk, a me, me, me type person. Don't allow others to use you this way! You need to learn to look for flags or signs that indicate when people are playing you to benefit themselves, not because they love and want to be near you. Don't ever make anyone "your life or one and only" when you are just an "option" to them! You deserve better than that honey! It sounds as though you have an active social life, so save the best for someone who deserves the best of all you have to offer - you! Good Luck!